Coming Out Day

          Today is national coming out day, which can be very scary for those who plan on using this day as an opportunity to talk to friends and family about their sexual orientation or gender identity. I wanted give some suggestions for those who plan on coming out today, or any other day, and some encouragement for those who don't feel like now is their time.

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          If you're planning on coming out, I want to say that I am proud of you. It takes a lot of courage.

          First thing you should be sure of before coming out, is that you are in a safe environment. It's very important that you are not in an unsafe situation by coming out. This includes physically and emotionally. If you do not think you are in a safe situation, please do not come out. Your well being is the most important thing here.

          Make sure you are personally ready. Even if you feel your loved ones will be accepting, you need to be positive that you're ready to do this now. Everything has it's time and it's okay to wait if you want to.

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          When coming out, do so with sincerity, and pure intentions. If they don't understand, try to help them, and be honest. 

          If you don't feel you aren't ready to come out, don't be discouraged. I know that days like this can make you feel left out, but everyone has their moment. Just because this one isn't yours doesn't mean it wont happen for you. You will get there in your own time.

Here's a fun coming out video for you to watch

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